Mind, Body,and Soul Series

Hey ladies! Welcome to day 2 of the week 1 of our series:

____ is a three week series where we learn tips, techniques, and points for our goal of transformation and renewal. We have three weeks to work on ourselves so we can start off feeling revived and refreshed to take on new projects, businesses, and plans that we may have in the second half of 2018 and the new school year. Ultimately our aim is to pour into ourselves, so we can better pour into others. For us women, we often put self care on the bottom of our to-do list after performing our wifey duties, taking care of our children, running our homes, being the president of the PTA, having 5 businesses and ministries, and taking over the world. No wonder we get burnt out and we are tired all the time! Self care needs to be at the top. How can we be better moms, teachers, managers, leaders, or women if we do not take care of the women in the mirror?



Welcome back ladies! I hope you are all enjoying your first week of getting your spirituality on. How do you feel? Hopeful? Happy?


Today we are focusing on meditation, as part two of our soul transformation. Slow down and take a deep breath. Relax. Inhale. Exhale. Repeat. Now that you are relaxed…let’s begin to meditate on our dive into meditation.


Meditation is the act of “thinking deeply or focusing one’s mind for a period of time, in silence or with the aid of chanting, for religious or spiritual purposes or as a method of relaxation” (Oxford Dictionary). To reflect is to meditate. To think, contemplate, and consider are forms of meditation as well.


“I am depressed. My life is falling apart. Things are hopeless!!”


The thoughts in our head and what we think of are important. Those thoughts dictate how we behave. Those thoughts dictate how we feel. It is so vital to think good, positive, uplifting thoughts. When you meditate and think of negative slander against yourself, you are creating a world of hopelessness. To meditate and consider the mean words people say to you, you are creating a world of insecurity. Stressing out is meditating on everything going wrong. Thinking negatively will have you start behaving negatively. You WON’T go further with your passions. You WON’T try out that new class. You WON’T even speak up about causes you care about! It is because you are listening to that ugly chatter in your brain telling you that you are not worthy. Instead, let’s begin meditating and being grateful on things that are going right! Trust, we will feel a lot better.


Personally I meditate on scripture verses from the Bible. God’s Word is what keeps me going. I meditate on it day and night (Psalm 1:2). His Word cheers me up, makes me feel loved, motivates me, inspires me, and comforts me. The Word reminds me that things will be OK. I then start to relax. I breathe normally again. I let go. And I am happy despite any chaos that is going on around me.


In the mornings, when you first wake up, start to meditate. Keep a list of affirmations, positive quotes, or bible scripture, and start to repeat them over and over again. Slow down and dissect the phrase and apply it to your daily life. What do you need to trust God about? Where in the workplace do you need to have more courage? Think about that and remember to trust Him and that you are courageous. To be victorious over our day, means being able to grab that list and leave it various places at our job or in our car, so whenever we are down, we can always refer to the list and be lifted back up. Keep meditating whenever you need to.


Focus and dwell on favorable thoughts. Thoughts that are helpful, good, and lovely  (Philippians 4:8). Us ladies got no time for negativity!! We have things to do, people to see, and places to go. Grab those thoughts of insecurity, of hopelessness, of envy, bitterness, and greed, and throw them away forever. These thoughts slow us down, make us weak, and destroy us. Start meditating on encouraging affirmations, Bible scripture, and anything you can find that is positive; and begin to see how your entire life (yes, your family, your marriage, your career, your passions, etc.) changes for the better.

5 Activities to keep your toddler active, healthy & fit

Have you ever wonder what activities will work for your toddler? Well, here are some activities that your toddler or younger children will love.


  • Toddlercise
  • Zumba
  • Yoga(strength/balance)
  • Tag(cardio)
  • Pool



Toddlercise is an exercise that encourages your active toddler to develop and utilize their gross motor skills. This activity will allow your little one develop their skills, such as over under hard-eye coordination, skipping, balance, hopping, jumping and running.(courtesy of MWR Pensacola family fitness center)

Zumba (zumbini):

A course you can pull this awesome activity up on You tube or you can definitely attend a Zumbini class. This activity encourages your toddler to move around to the beat of their own drum. I believe it teaches them individuality. With Zumbini your toddler is building the cognitive, social, and motor skills. This is an awesome opportunity to combine learning and fun.


We all have that toddler that loves to sit on their  hand or lay on the floor. I figured why not teach my toddler the various yoga poses in a safe and encouraging manner. I went out and bought my daughter a beautiful mat and she loves it! This is definitely a bonding activity that your child will not outgrow.



Tag your it!

I know everyone is familiar with this centuries old activity that we all have tried as kids. Tag has been something that we play inside/outdoors, but I encourage this to be an outdoor activity so that everyone can get some fresh air.


Teaching your kids to swim is awesome because they will boost their confidence and it can reduce the risk of drowning. When your little one is confident then they are less likely to get stressed about the pool and they will enjoy the experience.

Splash Splash!


The Balancing Act -Guest Blogger Ilonda Clayton




Balancing Act

Being a mom alone is one of the hardest jobs in the world, and for a lot of women a career is an  added demand. So how can one balance parenting and having your own business? Here are some tools that you can implement each day to insure you are living a healthy well balanced life.

1. Try to get at least 20 minutes of exercise day. Yes! I know it seems like a challenge, but this will help with your weight management, reducing stress, and exercise releases endorphins which has a direct reflect on several key neurotransmitters that are related to mood. You can even include the kids. (ex. Yoga, Walking)

2. Eat healthy meals each day. Planning your meals is one way to ensure you eat a well-
balanced meal daily. Planning meals helps you manage your time better and makes meal preparation easier.

Regal: the face of the Tathagata:

3. Use a planner, this is an important visual tool to use so that you will not get overwhelmed with daily tasks. Sundays is a great day to write down your plan for the week. Setting goals will help you to organize your time and your resources so that you can make the most of your day.

4. Have an accountability partner(s). Find a group or a friend that are entrepreneurs and moms as well. This will be a great support when dealing with challenges that arise. “Many highly successful business people have accountability partners who they talk to regularly to check in on progress and work through any distractions or obstacles that have come up” (n.d.)

-Ilonda Clayton @ ilondaclayton.com